tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8001161974504933972.post7798874899803536777..comments2011-02-24T12:32:16.762-05:00Comments on Distractingly Bombastic: Thoughts in my Mind...distractinglybombastichttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11900142361343830780noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8001161974504933972.post-26069469275609248072008-10-21T16:30:00.000-04:002008-10-21T16:30:00.000-04:00Why didn't you tell me you posted a new blog entry...Why didn't you tell me you posted a new blog entry? I was kinda mad at you but I stopped being when I did read it. This is -by far- one of the most honest and beautiful entries you have written -I believe that. <BR/><BR/>But, Brian...how to say this? I can't really. I can't tell you: "Everything will be fine. You'll find someone to fill the bed next to you. Someone who will love you for who you are and will not cheat on you." I can't say that because I don't know that. I'm not gonna serve you with "everything's gonna be okay" bullshit, because in the long run, everything might not be okay. <BR/><BR/>I'm not helping much, am I? At least now you know we kinda think the same when we lie in bed at night. And I know how hard it is to sleep when thoughts like those you mentioned linger on and tear you up.<BR/><BR/>I rooted for Drew since day one, you know that. But if he's not making you happy or fullfilled, you don't have to stay with him or Cezar or Ivan so you won't be alone. Yeah, life is a cheap whore with a 50 thousand dollar dress, but those who think that people are cruel, probably forget that loneliness is even more. No one can help you feel less alone. No one but you. <BR/><BR/>You have your kids, your life, your job. Something may and will come along, eventually. Something worth waiting for. You are young and really hot -don't worry!<BR/><BR/>(oh, boy, do I talk much! And much of anything, really! And this Michael guy from sunny California has a point there...)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8001161974504933972.post-5778494655517078362008-10-20T01:49:00.000-04:002008-10-20T01:49:00.000-04:00you are amazing. your sons are lucky to have you a...you are amazing. your sons are lucky to have you as a father. remember, when you feel alone or are by yourself, it may be easy to fall into the trap of loneliness, but realize that through you, others are far from the same feeling, especially your sons. <BR/><BR/>you'll find someone. here's a quote that has helped me recently with my breakup:<BR/><BR/>""It's been said that the saddest thing a man will ever face is what might have been. But what of a man who’s faced with what was? Or what may never be? Or what can no longer be? Choosing the right path is never easy. It's a decision we make with only our hearts to guide us. But sometimes we find our way to something better. Sometimes we fight through the regret and remorse of our mistakes, our malice and our jealousy and the shame we feel for not being the people we were meant to be. And that's when we find our way to something better. Or when something better finds its way to us."<BR/><BR/>i know it might not be much, but it might help. there's always hope.<BR/><BR/>please be well.<BR/><BR/>sending you my best,<BR/>michael from california.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com